The most important thing to get good with girls
Ask yourself…
1. When was the last time I went out?
2. While I was out, did I open sets often enough?
3. While in set, did I push as far as possible?
In those 3 easy questions there are tons of ways you may find you sabotage yourself.
Balance is vital in life, but real progress takes real energy. The WORST thing you can do is to NOT go out much.
The best techniques mean nothing, if you’re not actually approaching.
You have to make a commitment. Get in the field. It’s time to go out. It’s time to approach.
And that’s not all.
Beyond showing up, and beyond playing, we must always be PUSHING to the next point.
The key is FORCING. If you’re ever wondering “how can I get past this anxiety?” The most
effective way is to not offer yourself a choice. Don’t even let it be a question, instead just:
DO. ACT. PUSH. Soon enough, you’ll open.
Temptation will pull you towards comfort, but this is the enemy of progress. You must push
past comfort in each of your experiences.
FORCE into attraction. When that is down
FORCE into qualification. Get that in place
FORCE into the next step. The cycle can not
and should not end.
Never let yourself succumb to the dreaded monster of self comfort, for if you
do, it will be the end of the BEST version of you.
It doesn’t have to end that way though, it won’t be decided by chance or destiny. It
is decided through one thing alone, one simple question you must answer for yourself:
Will you perpetually push yourself past the next step through EXPERIENCE?
The choice is yours alone.
P.S. A couple more weeks and the Love Systems Super Conference will be taking place in Las Vegas. There are only few seats left, so hurry up!
P.P.S. Here is a video of Love Systems coach “Future” giving a talk at the conference last year.