The Pick-Up Diary

1. Warm up: Approach at least 5 random people on the street before going to a club.

2. Get to the club half an hour before everyone is going. This way you reduce the chances girls have already been approached by some guys and have their bitch shield? on. Also, they are still willing to be approached by a confident, funny guy. A guy like you!

3. Coming into a club smile and open a set immediately. It doesnt matter what you say, what counts is that you look like a social guy. As you open, make a habit to touch the person on the shoulder lightly. Forget about people judging you. I think Neil Strauss, author of The Game, puts said it best: People don’t really care about what you’re doing in a club, they are too busy worrying what other people are thinking about THEM.

For example ask ‘where is the VIP room? How many rooms are here?’? etc. Pretend to walk away and then ask ‘Hey, are you best friends? Yeah? Because there is a cool test for best friends I’ve read in the Cosmopolitan.’? Now they will wanna know why a guy reads Cosmopolitan (you were at the dentist and it was the only magazine in the waiting room).
Do the best friends test and continue with other routines.

Can’t find the right set to open? Ask the barman or the bouncer something (for example: ‘Why is the club is so empty?’ Try to talk at least for a minute. It’s important that girls/ guys see you talking to people.

4. Place yourself at the bar facing the dance floor. Sit down if you can and put your elbow on the counter. Don’t order drinks and hold the bottle in front of your chest (it’s what everybody does and you’re not everybody).

5. As you are there early, girls will come up to the bar and order drinks. If they are close to you, touch her lightly on the shoulder saying ‘Hey, what perfume is that?’ As she goes away, say: ‘the reason why I’m asking is because a want to make a present to a female friend, but I’m absolutely clueless. And I think if I ask in a store they will simply recommend me the most expensive one…’

Sometimes she will say ‘Oh, I don’t even know?…’ Don’t let you fool you, say: ‘Come on, you probably have like 17 small bottles in front of your mirror.’ She probably will say: ‘No!! I’m not that type of girl!’? You: Ok, 16 then’?. Tease her a bit, flirt with her. Don’t forget to engage her friend.

When they finally want to move along, join them or say ‘Hey, you seem like really cool guys, can I join you until my friends show up? They must be here any minute…’? If they say no, keep your smile and don’t worry: They are not your last set. (And you probably will see them later in the club anyway and it will be easy to continue your conversation).

Stay at your place and open sets immediately that are to your left or right saying ‘Hey, did you see these (girls)? She said she likes your ass!’ (it doesn’t matter if it’s a guy or a girl). Transition with your routines. New game, new luck!

P.S. Two important things to keep in mind:

1) Never let them affect your state in a negative way (at least never show it!), because it will fuck up your next set. Learn to not give a fuck about stuff like that and especially shit tests.

2) Always kino escalate (touching)! Otherwise it will be really awkward to touch for the first time.

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In Prague, you can find nightlife every day of the week, especially from Thursday to Saturday.

Bars, pubs, nightclubs, cabarets and jazz clubs make Prague one of the liveliest cities in Central Europe.

Main areas

Although all places are within walking distance of 20 minutes, we can divide the nightlife of Prague into different zones:

Charles Bridge
On the eastern bank of the Vltava river, next to the Charles Bridge, are some of Prague’s main nightclubs and bars. Because of their location, these are the liveliest places during the whole week, as the public is, for the most part, tourists.

1) Zlaty Strom Bar & Music Club
Hotel, bar and nightclub, the Zlaty Strom is ideal to start the night. The venue is divided into various venues, ranging from sitting rooms to a bar where strip-tease shows are held continuously – something quite common in Prague.

2) Karlovy Lazne
The Karlovy Lazne is one of the largest nightclubs in Central Europe. It has five floors with different musical styles and is one of the places where you can find a lively atmosphere every night. Inside is the Ice Bar, a bar made of ice at a temperature of -6ºC.

3) Goldfingers
If you are looking for a strip club Prague, this is the place to go. This place is open everyday from 8:30 p.m. till 5/6 oclock in the morning and offers countless gorgeous girls, a VIP limousine service and much more. Currently it has 199 reviews on Google with an average rating of 4,2 out of 5, so you wont be disapointed here.

Wenceslas Square
In addition to being the hub of ballads and cabarets, in Wenceslas Square, you can find some of Prague’s best nightclubs.

4) Lucerne Music Bar
The Lucerna Music Bar building is historic (built by the family of former President Václv Havel and has the famous horse sculpture by David ÄŒern, which already guarantees an extra thrill in his ballad. But the qualities of the place go well beyond that. He’s been getting great shows and, on weekends, he’s seen the stage of a big 80’s and 90’s ballad, with clips on a big screen. It’s guaranteed fun.

5) Duplex
Two floors, a large terrace, and special decoration make the Duplex the most lively nightclub in Prague. If you prefer to go during the day you can visit the bar and restaurant.

6) Nebe
The Nebe is a lively place that can be defined as a mix between a bar and nightclub. It is very close to the National Museum of Prague.

Around the Old Town Square

Several bars and nightclubs can be found in the various streets that reach Old Town Square. Some streets very frequented by the locals are Dlouhá, Michalská, and Melantrichova.

Dlouha Street

On Dlouha Street you can find several very lively places. We give two different examples:

7) Bombay Bar
This one offers an after work atmosphere for a leisurely drink. Nothing fancy, but not bad.

8) Harley’s
It is considered one of the great places in the city for those who want to dance to the sound of rock – so expect a more alternative crowd. It has an Americanized look, with references to Harley Davidson, Jack Daniel’s, Bourbon Street, Route 66, and stuff. Beer is expensive, but the waiters are lively.

9) Roxy
It is a classic of the city, opened in 1992, in the last moments of former Czechoslovakia. Incredibly, it remains one of the best ballads in Prague (perhaps the best), with lots of electronic music of various styles. Roxy is one of the oldest and most famous halls in Prague. Although it usually functions as a disco, it also hosts shows and other events. Mondays are usually ballads and Roxy is a wise choice.

Melantrichova Street and Michalska Street

In these streets, you will find bars like Double Trouble and nightclubs like Temple places frequented by very young people and mostly Czech. Located inside a church, Temple is one of the most curious places in Prague.

10) M1 Lounge
The M1 is much more VIP than any other ballad in the neighborhood, which ends up attracting an audience in search of that. Through all this climate and its fame, it also attracts local and international celebrities. It’s not hard to find a Hollywood star while sipping your Czech beer.

To take into account

Although many already know, it is important to remember that the typical Prague drink is beer. If you want to drink something else you can order a cocktail.

In bars and nightclubs where the entrance is required, the price varies between 50 and 200 kronor.

Nowhere do they usually require a special dress code. However, in discos like the Duplex, people usually go well dressed.

Prague is a city that never sleeps, if you are looking for fun it is the right place. As the sun sets over the enchanting city of Prague, its cobblestone streets come to life with a vibrant and diverse nightlife scene. From underground clubs and lively pubs to sophisticated cocktail bars and jazz venues, there’s something for everyone in this historic city.

You need more locations? How about the following?

• Hemingway Bar

If you appreciate expertly crafted cocktails, Hemingway Bar is a must-visit. This elegant, speakeasy-style bar is inspired by the legendary writer Ernest Hemingway and offers a vast selection of rare spirits, inventive cocktails, and vintage champagne. Be sure to try their signature drink, “Death in the Afternoon,” a unique blend of absinthe and champagne.

• ?U Sudu

U Sudu is a hidden gem nestled in the narrow streets of Prague’s city center. This underground wine bar and pub features a labyrinth of interconnected brick cellars, creating an atmospheric setting to enjoy a vast selection of local and international beers, wines, and spirits.

• Jazz Dock

Situated on the banks of the Vltava River, Jazz Dock is a modern, waterfront venue that hosts an array of talented local and international jazz musicians. With its intimate setting, impressive acoustics, and extensive drink menu, Jazz Dock provides the perfect ambiance for a night of live music and relaxation.

• Letna Beer Garden

Perched on the hill overlooking the city, Letna Beer Garden is a popular summer destination for both locals and tourists. With stunning panoramic views of Prague and a laid-back atmosphere, it’s the ideal spot to enjoy a cold Pilsner and soak in the city’s beauty as the sun sets.

• Cross Club

An extraordinary fusion of industrial design and eclectic programming, Cross Club is a must-visit for alternative music fans. This steampunk-inspired venue boasts multiple stages, hosting everything from electronic dance music to punk and reggae, ensuring a unique and unforgettable night out.

• Anonymous Bar

Inspired by the notorious hacker collective, Anonymous Bar is a mysterious and intriguing cocktail bar in the heart of Prague. With its dim lighting, masked bartenders, and creative menu, this clandestine spot promises a one-of-a-kind experience for those seeking something out of the ordinary.

• Riegrovy Sady Beer Garden

Escape the hustle and bustle of the city at Riegrovy Sady Beer Garden, a sprawling park oasis located in the Vinohrady neighborhood. With picnic tables, food stands, and a large screen for sports events, this relaxed beer garden is the perfect place to spend a warm summer evening with friends.

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If you want to meet new girls, you need to know where to go. Most guys instantly think of clubs and bars. But actually, these places are not that great to meet girls.

Here’s the reason: In clubs girls get hit on all the time (with stuff like “Can I buy you a drink?” or “Are you often here?”) as most guys think it’s the only place where it’s okay to approach girls (and mostly it’s also the only place they have the guts to do it).

So, by and by the girls get pissed off and start acting bitchy in those places (the so-called “bitch shield” is an automatic mechanism to protect yourself from all the horny guys).

Besides, most clubs are too noisy, overcrowded and the cool chill-out places where you can build comfort or make out with a girl are more often than not taken.

Of course, there are also cafés, but if you’re searching for places where women are not attuned to be approached, check out the my list of the Top 5 Places where women behave naturally:

1) Bookstore. It’s a fact: Most customers here are women. Find a nice girl and get a book recommendation.

2) Grocery. Fruit and veg section. Women are into balanced diet. Start a conversation.

3) Drugstore. Same story as in #1 here. Small downside: Most women are in a hurry.

4) Clothing store. Women’s section. Mindframe: You’re looking for a present for a friend. Just ask, women love all kind of fashion questions.

5) Perfumery. Many women here, unfortunately also some overly committed shop assistants.

The cool thing about these places: Women act much more naturally here as only few guys approach them at these places.

P.S. The nail salon, the jewel store and the library are also places where women are among each other. For more places check out Paul Janka’s Attraction Formula (page 15-18) and Savoy’s Magic Bullets (Chapter 13) – both outstanding books that I highly recommend.

Most guys think you can only meet women in bars and clubs. That can’t be further from the truth. Just think back how many gorgeous women you’ve seen shopping. The great thing is that meeting women in the daytime is a great alternative. Here are 4 reasons why you should start meeting women in coffee shops, malls, colleges, and shopping streets.

1. You don’t enjoy going to bars or clubs.

A lot of guys don’t like going to bars and clubs. Going out at night can be expensive with cover and buying drinks (especially if you buy lots of drinks and you have that dreaded hangover the next day). Let’s not forget that you smell like smoke and sweat the next morning. The good thing is that women aren’t only found in bars and clubs. If you don’t like meeting women at night (or your schedule doesn’t permit you), you will love daytime dating. You can meet tons of women in the daytime. Just think of all the women you can meet in busy malls and coffee shops.

2. Most women are by themselves.

Don’t you just hate it when you get cockblocked? Well guess what. You won’t have that problem in the daytime. At night women are found in big groups. Oftentimes with men around them too that might intimidate you. However, most women are found alone during the day. She might be running some errands or she is on her way to get an appointment. This makes it much easier to get to know the woman when she is by herself and you won’t have to worry about her friends interrupting you.

3. You meet more quality girls.

Let’s face it. Do you really want that crazy party girl as your girlfriend? You will meet more quality girls in the daytime than you do at night. They are too busy doing useful things than getting drunk at night. You won’t find quality girls partying on a Wednesday night at 1.30am. A beautiful woman reading a book on Roman history is a better catch, isn’t she? You will find those quality women shopping in malls, libraries, and coffee shops just to name a few places. In fact, a lot of these quality girls will refuse to meet guys at bars or clubs. So if you don’t meet those girls in the daytime, you’re missing out on a lot of quality women.

4. Wider range of times and places to meet women.

The night time only gives you limited number of options on types of places you can meet women: bar, lounge, and nightclub. During the day you can go to many more places: coffee shops, libraries, college campuses, shopping streets, malls, and grocery stores. There more places where on one-off times you can meet women like theme parks, festivals, and that one time you run into a woman somewhere and you don’t what to do. Another great thing of daytime dating is that you don’t have to wait till nighttime comes around. You can start meeting women as soon as you wake up getting your coffee at the coffee shop.

If you want to find out more on how to meet, attract, and seduce women in daytime environment, you should check out “Daytime Dating” by day-game expert Jeremy Soul of Love Systems. He is recognized as the #1 day game expert and he has codified his system for getting girls in coffee shops, malls, streets, and more. His brand-new book on day-game called “Daytime Dating” is going to be released tomorrow. By now you can read 20 pages for FREE!

In some ways, Day Game follows the same structure as any other type of game. But of course there are also differences. Here are the main ones and how to get around them:

1. Guys generally get more approach anxiety approaching girls in the daytime than they do at night.

People always think, “Isn’t it weird to approach girls in the day? Aren’t they busy? Aren’t they going to tell you to go away?” The truth is it’s no less weird than approaching people you don’t know to talk to them in a bar. Instead of reacting really badly, girls react better in the daytime than they do at night. At night, they expect guys to be drunk and hit on them, but in the daytime, it happens to them much less often and thus they are impressed by your confidence and willingness to take risks. Like all approach anxiety, the only way to overcome this is to man up and go approach them.

2. Direct openers are much more necessary in Day Game than night game.

There are a lot of venue considerations in Day Game (see below), but in many situations, particularly in street game, it can come across as really bizarre to stop a random girl and ask her opinion on something. In a bar, you could feasibly be having a conversation with your mates, and want to ask someone nearby their opinion, but in the daytime it comes across as less congruent. Direct openers work fantastically well on the street, e.g. “Excuse me, I just saw you walking past and thought you looked absolutely beautiful! I know this is really forward of me but I just had to say hello. How are you?” Direct Openers are also massively important for moving sets. Contrary to what most people think, it is ridiculously easy to stop moving sets (most of my sets are girls walking past me), you just need to be committed enough to your Direct opener. When you open a moving set, stop, plant yourself right on the ground where you are and deliver the opener. Do NOT start moving as they are moving, wait for them to stop. If they don’t stop, it will be creepy to follow them.

3. Day Game involves a greater variety of venues than night game. These venues are mainly differentiated by the levels of Social Pressure they involve.

You have the streets, cafés, bookstores, art galleries, college campuses etc. Every venue or situation is slightly different, so you will need to develop good social calibration so you don’t creep girls out. The biggest factor to be aware of is Social Pressure. The more other people can listen to your interaction with a woman, the higher the Social Pressure will be, and the more potentially uncomfortable the girl will feel. In high social pressure situations, your job is three-fold. First, don’t go too Direct, either open indirectly or tone down your Direct opener (e.g. “That’s a lovely dress, how you doing?”).

Second, have a strong frame of feeling comfortable in the interaction. The strongest frame always wins: You feeling comfortable talking to her will make her relax. If you are nervous, she will start to feel uncomfortable. The truth is, feeling this comfortable only comes with time and practice. But remember, she can’t see how you feel inside, only how you act on the outside.

Third, make her laugh. If you can tease her or otherwise make her laugh within the first thirty seconds of the interaction, she will instantly relax – the interaction is then suddenly a fun bit of banter with a stranger instead of being accosted by some creepy guy on the subway.

4. Super hot girls are MUCH easier to open in the daytime.

You know how the super hot girls get hit on a lot in bars and clubs? There is one reason why: Alcohol. It normally starts happening after everyone is liquored up. In the sober light of day (and without all their buddies to back up their testosterone levels), most guys are shit scared of the super hottie walking down the street. They will gawp at her, but God forbid they summon the stones to go up to her and say hello. Direct game works really well in the daytime with super hotties. You’ll be surprised at how many of them will turn around to you and say, “Oh my God, that’s so nice of you, no one has ever stopped me on the street to say that!”

5. You can get into Comfort much more quickly in Day Game than night game.

The fact that you have approached her in the daytime already demonstrates a lot of value; if you went Direct, then this is even more pronounced. Attraction building should happen in a matter of minutes. As soon as she’s laughing and enjoying the interaction, stop thinking about attraction and start thinking about qualifying and building comfort. You’ll need to escalate things as part of this. The easiest way to escalate the interaction on the street is to ask her which way she is headed, and suggest that you walk with her for a few minutes to chat. You can add in a, “I don’t want go dress shopping or anything like that with you though – that would be kind of gay – so I’ll probably head off in a few minutes!” This works exactly like a false time constraint. You are reducing the pressure in the situation.

6. Day Game approaches are often less expected by women and can take them by surprise.

This is a double edged sword. On the one hand, as mentioned above it causes guys to have more anxiety when daytime approaching, and they sometimes equate the surprise that girls will get with her being weirded out. On the other hand, because she is surprised, you have just spiked her emotions and therefore, if you run the interaction well, this turns into a massive positive for you. Not to mention that fact that very rarely do guys approach women on the street, so when you do approach her she will be more impressed and more likely to remember you positively (therefore LESS likely to flake than a night game set). The best way to handle the surprise/shock factor she may experience (especially if you use a Direct opener) is to acknowledge the situation, e.g. “I know this is really forward of me… but I was going to regret it all day if I didn’t stop you and say hello,” or, “This is very bold of me, but I thought you looked absolutely stunning, and I don’t believe in letting opportunities pass you by.”

7. It is harder to get a Same Day Lay than a Same Night Lay.

The reason why this is true is because of logistics, not because of social conventions (which is what you might have expected). If your game is good enough, you can bend social conventions to your whim, but once you get good, the biggest problem you spend most of your time overcoming is logistics. The fact is, girls will tend to be more busy and in the middle of doing other things in the daytime, so often you will only be able to take a phone number, build some comfort, and then move on. However, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be on the lookout for Same Day Lays!! In the ideal situation, you meet the girl and take her on a series of venue changes than end up back at your place. More commonly, there will be an “interrupt”, where she has to go home to eat or meet friends etc. In these cases you can still try to get her to come out to a party with you that night. You need to get out of the mentality that Day Game is just about taking phone numbers: You are trying to seduce these women not just get their digits. Set up the instant date if you can (e.g. take her for a coffee, then a drink, then a walk, then your place), or arrange to meet her later that day if you can. As mentioned above though, this all depends on what else she has got going on that day. Welcome to the wonderful world of logistical management!

8. You often have less time to demonstrate value to the girl than in night game.

Some girls you open will be in a rush to get somewhere, just about to meet friends, or may not have the time or inclination to talk to a random (albeit fun and interesting) stranger in the middle of the day. Because you are not in a bar, chances are she is not going to see you talking to other people (i.e. no opportunity for social proof). In the daytime therefore, you typically have a very small window of opportunity to make a good first impression: You must present yourself as well as humanly possible. Leave the house ready to meet women. Wear nice clothes, style your hair, and wear good shoes (don’t wear your tatty trainers). All of these things will encourage her to response positively to her when you stop her in the middle of the street.

9. Groups of women seem more difficult to approach even though they really are not.

It is not true that you can’t run Direct Game on groups of women, and it is not true that you can’t open groups of women in the daytime. Your strategy with a group should be either to pull all of them to another venue with you (typically again, there will be an interrupt, but you can invite them somewhere later that night), or to open the girl you want, build some comfort with the whole group (so they approve of you and allow you to pick up the girl you want), and then start escalating with your chosen girl. Escalation in front of the group might be as simple as taking her number, finding out some stuff about her and qualifying her a little.

The most important thing is to take action. A lot of guys who excel in night game, choke in the daytime. You need to be willing to take action TODAY, not tomorrow, not the day after. Procrastination is the world’s greatest sin. You will find that once you force yourself to open a few daytime sets, your skills and experience in other areas will rapidly transfer across. It’s just being willing to burst through that barrier.

To find out more information on day game, check out this audio download by Love Systems day game experts Jeremy Soul and Bonsai. The first 10 minutes are FREE.